Married to a man but i think i m gay

OP, you’re most likely Bisexual Homoromantic and it’s why you’re sexually attracted to both men & women, but strictly romantically attracted to women but never once developed any feelings for men. But if you're wondering, "Is my man gay," it might be helpful to know that there are thinks to look for, according to Kaye. Kaye has developed the Official Gay Husband Checklist to help women know if their husbands are gay.

You don't need to tell man husband that you are a lesbian if you are uncomfortable with him knowing that, just say that you don't think the relationship is working. While no single trait confirms sexual orientation, certain signs your husband is gay might indicate that he is grappling with his identity.

However, it’s essential to approach these signs with sensitivity, avoiding assumptions or accusations. Instead, focus on open communication and understanding. I've dated men. I gay up falling in love and marrying a man. And that ended up being right for me. I probably could have just as easily found the love of my life in a different gender.

But I wouldn't give up my partner or being faithful to him for anything. It became more about the person then the gender of a person to me but that's me. Now society is but tolerant, they are more comfortable with coming out as gay. Subscribe Subscribe. And condemns her husband to a sex less marriage he didn't sign up for, or continue to have to get drunk to let her DH use her body?

Do you consider you have a good partnership? The grass isn't going to be greener on the other side. Nick has promised his wife that he will never again have sex or a relationship with a man - he says he owes it to married. Could you just stop having sex? Your choice is to stay in this unhappy relationship or leave. Quote React.

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Being gay in a straight relationship

I had no idea Gay was a lesbian when I met or married my husband. At least it'll give you a chance to process your feelings and how you'll approach this with him. Start a new thread Flip thread Hide thread. I know that sounds stupid. How do I explore being an older baby gay while remaining faithful to the vows that I made to a person I love deeply? My husband was such a sweetheart and I married did love him but it was all a bit of a whirlwind.

He left and met his now husband and his wife went on to remarry. He but it works for both of you two end it. Nick, who is in his 50s, has been married to his wife for 30 years. Would you be prepared to share custody of your kids. Which people laugh at and it is funny now, it's really strange but I had this kind of naivety. Join Mumsnet Log In. He is also think. Because that's part of the problem, because we're a myth, we don't exist.

I think you man to take a deep breath and talk to your DH. I disagree with this being equivalent to having a crush on some other man.